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How To Talk With Any Girl, Anytime, Anywhere Successfully.
When we discuss the matters of approaching women, or how to approach women, we often come up with the skill of conversation being important to the skill of how to approach women effectively.
I've always praised at my ability to initiate conversation with anybody at any time about any topic - even when there is apparently "nothing to talk about". It's a skill I have and in this piece of writing I will tell you the SIMPLE trick to my success.
The best way to trigger a conversation is to ask questions. Too simple? Well, let me show.
What do you ask questions regarding?
Well, I always just ask questions about whatever I want to know. It differs from person to person. But usually if I am meeting someone new I would ask questions such as "Do you have brothers and sisters?" "Do you live with your parents?" "Do you have a lot of pals?"
Usually a person chats for a while when answering and that lends you more data to ask some more questions about. Often I will make a remark if it is correct or if they ask me a question in reply to my question I just answer their question then ask them a different one of my questions.
The tough times are when people merely give you "yes" and "no" type answers. That doesn't give much to work off of.
When I sense the situation is annoying or the person isn't conversing much (like the above "yes" and "no" replies), then I talk about how painful the situation is. Tell something like "This is upsetting. I feel so awkward. I don't know what to speak. Do you feel uneasy too?"
Generally you can get a little discussion going on that topic and minimize a lot of stress just by accepting that you feel awkward and don't know what to speak about. Then go onto a question like "Ok, let's look at what we can discuss. What are your pursuits? Do you have any pastime activities?"
Another questioning approach is to notice what a person puts their concentration on and discuss or ask questions about that. So, for instance, if you are in a cafe and the person you are dating isn't speaking much, just going through the menu, you could possibly say "Kind of an exciting menu. What appears good to you?" That might trigger a conversation about food items or restaurants and menus, etc.
This approach is also good for meeting outsiders. If you are in a supermarket next to some one beautiful who is staring at "lamb chops" you might say: "I see you are desirous about the lamb chops. Do you know an excellent way to prepare them, I've always wished to try them, but actually don't know how to prepare them."
Remember also that you are not always going to connect with everyone you meet. So if you try, try, and look for a decent dialogue going and it doesn't come about then this is possibly not the best person for you.
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